[House] San Francisco Parents of Multiples SFPOM General Discussion forum digest - 1/15/2013

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San Francisco Parents of Multiples SFPOM General Discussion 1/14/2013
10:14 am - 1/15/2013

1. What is your feeding schedule for 6 month old twins? So... (eeewww)
2. Comment: What is your feeding schedule for 6 month... (erin_loback)
3. Comment: What is your feeding schedule for 6 month... (noursej)
4. Comment: What is your feeding schedule for 6 month... (kaluzoo)
5. how to stop using pull-ups at nighttime (seabringwatts)
6. Comment: how to stop using pull-ups at nighttime (VickiZettler)
7. need helper/nanny mid day (melissa_farris)
8. Comment: Ski Clothes Closet (Sandpiper)
9. RE: [sfpom_general] Ski Clothes Closet (rockchalk90)
10. Comment: questions about average/appropriate nanny pay
(wendyroess)

1. What is your feeding schedule for 6 month old twins?
Solids/milk
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eeewww - 1/14/2013 12:13 pm

 My twins are 6 months old. One has been a bad formula
 drinker and the other a great formula drinker. We
 started the bad drinker on rice cereal at 5.5 months
 and she seems to like eating solids. We started the
 other one at 6 months.We have introduced sweet potatoes
 and carrots so far. The bad bottle drinker loves
 everything and eats a lot of solids for her little
 body, and still seems to drink about the same amount of
 formula in her bottle as before, or just about. The
 other one doesn't seem to like the solids much, but
 will eat a bit. But even if she doesn't eat too much of
 her solid meal, she doesn't drink much of her bottle
 after. Then she is starving for her next meal 4 hours
 later. And she has been waking up at night crying. This
 morning she woke up at about 4 am. She has been weaned
 off that feeding for a while. But she woke up. I held
 her and calmed her (we are CIO people but this was
 unusual). But she didn't fall back asleep and she was
 still crying at 6 so I fed her even though she usually
 eats at 7 am. I have tried giving her her bottle first
 but then she really doesn't eat the solids. Plus, the
 logistics of feeding one baby solids first and then
 bottle and the other baby bottle first and then solids
 when you are alone and feeding them is kind of a
 nightmare.So, I'm just curious what your schedule is?
 When do you feed the solids and bottles? Our pre-solids
 schedule was:7 am wake up7:15 bottle9:15-11 nap11:15
 bottle1:15-3 nap3:15 bottle5-5:30 nap6:45 bottle7 pm
 bed11 pm dream feedWe have been following this same
 schedule but just doing some solids before the 11:15
 and 3:15 bottle. Should I be doing something
 different?Also I think one baby is ready to shift to 2
 naps a day and the other is not, so we have to stick
 with the three naps for now.

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Solids/milk"

Email author: bugjarbabe at yahoo.com
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 2. erin_loback says...
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 1/14/2013 7:54 pm
 
 I started solids at 6 months, and our pre-solids
 schedule was almost identical to yours (the last nap
 was about 4:30-5, and we quit the dream feed at 5
 month, but otherwise the same). For the first few
 weeks, we just did solids once a day at about 8:30 am. 
 By 7 months or a bit earlier, we added another one
 around 4. Shortly after that they dropped the third
 nap. At 8ish months we added a third meal, right around
 noon. I always gave food after milk. My understanding
 is that most of the nutrition comes from milk at this
 age still, and the food is all about learning how to
 eat, and new flavors and textures, and just a little
 bit of nutrition. (Also, I was breastfeeding and I
 didn't want even one-quarter ounce of pumped milk to go
 to waste while I was at work.) So I always gave solids
 a little bit after milk, to ensure they'd drink all the
 milk they should be getting, and then after waiting
 just a while, they were hungry enough to eat a little
 bit of solids.If you do solids just a little while
 after bottles, it seems like your babies will drink
 their usual amount. Maybe one will eat more than the
 other for now (probably just differing interests), but
 with more practice she'll get there. Then you can keep
 them on the same schedule, too, which as we all know is
 key with twins!ErinBrett and Maggie9/28/09
 Email author: erin_loback at yahoo.com
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 3. noursej says...
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 1/14/2013 8:50 pm
 
 between 6-9 months i slowly migrated to meals at 7-8am,
 12noon, 4pm and 7-8 pm. with morning naps between
 9-11, afternoon naps between 1-3, and sleeping through
 the night. (i stopped dream feeds around 7 months). i
 took this from the 'french national meal plan' from the
 book 'bringing up bebe'. worked great. i migrated
 slowly to stretch out the meal until i reached 4 hour
 intervals, by distracting the kids for an extra five
 minutes every day or two, until i finally had stretch
 out the intervals... i loved this schedule. was
 effortless once established...fit so nicely with
 naps...everything fell into place...the catch: once we
 went to one nap, it took me a while to realize that
 dinner had to be moved up to 5pm...and bedtime around
 6:30... 4pm snack/meal kind of got phased out. like
 erin, i always fed milk (formula in my case) first at
 every meal by bottle, followed by exposure to solids. 
 my goal was nutrition by milk and exposure/education to
 solids only - no emphasis on nutrition with solids for
 many months...now, at 17 months, i still give formula
 for nutrition first at breakfast and dinner, though
 lunch is completely solids now. breakfast and dinner
 are followed up by solids. i anticipate that we'll
 migrate from formula+solids to entirely
 solids+multi-vitamin by 24 months...hope this helps! 
 best, jen
 Email author: noursejlm at gmail.com
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 4. kaluzoo says...
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 1/14/2013 9:16 pm
 
 My pre-solids schedule was nearly identical to yours. 
 We are now feeding solids 4x/day due to demand (my kids
 *love* solids!) and they are still drinking 30-40oz of
 formula a day. We do:7 -8am: wake up, bottle followed
 by oatmeal w/ fruit9am - 10am: nap11am - 12pm: bottle
 followed by "lunch" of finger foods (at 9 months, they
 are way over me feeding them solids and prefer to feed
 themselves - which means less actual consumption of
 food and more food for the dog...)1-2 or 3pm: nap3-4pm:
 snack followed by bottle (this is my attempt to merge
 the two solid rounds into one lunch :) )5-6pm:
 sometimes there's a 20min nap in here still, but they
 are dropping it6 or 6:30pm: dinner of solids, then
 bottle. Bed by 7:30.
 Email author: sarahchandler at gmail.com
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5. how to stop using pull-ups at nighttime
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seabringwatts - 1/14/2013 10:57 am

 I have 4-year-old, almost 5-year-old twins, who have
 been potty trained for a long time but they are still
 wearing pull-ups to bed at night. I'm looking for some
 guidance on how to get my twins out of them and able to
 be fully potty trained even when they are asleep at
 night.We always have them go to the potty right before
 bed. We have tried having them sleep at night without
 pull-ups, and waking them up before my husband and I go
 to bed to have them use the potty. Sometimes they will
 pee and then sleep through the night without an issue. 
 Sometimes they will not need to pee and then will wet
 their bed in the middle of the night. There have been
 times where they have slept through the night without
 wetting the bed but it is erratic.I want to encourage
 them to sleep without pull-ups especially when they
 want to try it (which sometimes they do), but I am also
 tired of waking up in the middle of the night to change
 a wet bed.Any advice?

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Email author: seabringwatts at gmail.com
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 6. VickiZettler says...
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 1/14/2013 11:36 am
 
 Sounds like you are on the right track. I also carried
 our 2 to the bathroom each night around midnight and
 they went every time (did this for about 4-6 months I
 think). They never once woke up, but it was an
 essential part of their training as they still couldn't
 hold it all night without the help. Once the pullups
 were done, they were done, they never went back to
 them. One thing that really helped is to limit a lot
 of evening drinking while training. Also, we bought
 these absorbant pads (you can get them now either
 disposable or the cloth type that we had that you can
 rewash.) Layer their beds with pad, sheet, pad, sheet
 etc. with several for each bed if you can. That way if
 they wet the bed (usually their top sheets and covers
 were not wet), you just come in, strip off the top
 sheet and pad and it's back to bed for all. Good luck,
 I'm sure it will end soon! Some kids take longer than
 others!
 Email author: vzettler at gmail.com
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7. need helper/nanny mid day
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melissa_farris - 1/14/2013 9:30 am

 I'm looking for a mothers helper/nanny that can come
 from about 3-6pm M-F. If any of you only use your
 nannies in the morning and think they might be
 interested in more hours, please let me know. My times
 and days can be flexible but I need help around that
 time of day! Let me know if you have any leads. Thank
 you very much!

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Email author: melissa_vree at yahoo.com
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Topic: Ski Clothes Closet

 Hello, how do I get hold of the ski clothes closet person. 
 I wanted borrow a boy...

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 8. Sandpiper says...
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 1/14/2013 10:25 am
 
 Write to email: snowclothescloset at sfpom.orgIf you go to
 "about" tab - there are emails listed for different
 coordinators.Good luck and have fun in the snow!
 Email author: ggmgjenia at gmail.com
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 9. rockchalk90 says...
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 1/14/2013 11:07 am
 
 thanks! From: sfpom_general at lists.bigtent.com To:
 rockchalk90 at hotmail.com Subject: Re: [sfpom_general]
 Ski Clothes Closet - Ref#75332125 Date: Mon, 14 Jan
 2013 10:26:06 -0800 Jenia commented: Write to email:
 snowclothescloset at sfpom.org If you go to "about" tab -
 there are emails listed for different coordinators.
 Good luck and have fun in the snow! Add your comments
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